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Candace posted a condolence
Tuesday, November 10, 2020
Dear Ma,
Firstly, I want to tell you that I miss you already. I have been constantly remembering our last conversation we had on the phone where even though you were feeling so tired, you asked how my kids and I were doing. You said please remember all the good times we had together. How could I ever forget?
You put nail polish on me for the first time ever when mom was away, you took me downtown Toronto on the subway to see Auntie Dale working at Eatons and clothes shopping! You stayed with me until I fell asleep every night during the summer I stayed with you and Pa because I was too scared to be alone. You and Pa took me for picnics down at the creek. You always helped me put on your jewelry to look pretty. You let me watch you apply your makeup and jewelry. You always looked so pretty and perfectly colour coordinated.
When I grew up and went off to university you were one of my biggest cheerleaders. You always said you would be there for my graduation even if you had to be wheeled onto the airplane. And obviously you made it!
I always enjoyed our many conversations on the phone. You always made me feel at home especially when I was lonely. I always enjoyed your gifts and cooking that you sent in the mail (my fall scarecrow still is placed in my home each year and I remember you.)
I am so fortunate that Kaiden was able to know you and that he knows whose table we eat at each meal and whose china cups we drink out of. I wish Keira also got to know you better ( you would have really loved her as I see so much of me in her)
Our similarities between us and the love we have allowed us to have a special bond that can never be replaced. You are such a strong and loving person. No matter what life threw at you, you always got back up and carried on being a great wife, mom, ma, and friend to all. I hope to follow your lead and face whatever comes my way and carry on in this amazing life.
I’m sorry I couldn’t be there to hold your hand I’m the end.
I will always remember.
Love you forever,
Your sweet heart
Candace
Kisses and hugs from Kaiden, Keira and Kent
Dale Long Posted Nov 12, 2020 at 6:11 AM
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Tracy Cunningham lit a candle
Monday, November 9, 2020
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My dearest friend Dale
I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. I hope you find some comfort in those around you. Thinking about you during this very difficult time. Big Hugs
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Marita Bellavance posted a condolence
Sunday, November 8, 2020
Our most heartfelt condolences on the loss of Aunt Phyllis. May your warm memories guide you through this difficult time.
Marita, Mario, Nicolas and Alexandre Bellavance (daughter of Victor and Jean Lavergne)
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Kirsch Bruer lit a candle
Sunday, November 8, 2020
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Sunday, November 8, 2020
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Dianne and Rick Watson lit a candle
Sunday, November 8, 2020
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Kaila posted a condolence
Sunday, November 8, 2020
A message to Ma:
Ma, I will always value the memories I have of our time together. As a child, I have the fondest memories of coming to visit my grandparents who lived in, what appeared to me as a young child, a giant castle in Toronto. You had the most amazing movies and toys for us to pay with that made those early visits so memorable. You would always have special treats bought for me (raspberry poptarts, no icing of course) and you always prepared desserts and meals to make sure they didn’t include any ‘yucky’ ingredients (raisins, cherries, etc.). You never had any problem remembering what each of your grandkids food preferences were.
As a child, I have many memories of us going shopping, to the zoo, and many other wonderful places in Toronto. For a little Saskatchewan girl, those were such great experiences to share with my grandmother.
As a grew older, I started to make different kinds of memories with you. We started having long talks about your life growing up on the farm, what it was like raising four children, religion, politics, and many other topics. In those conversations, I came to see where I inherited my curiosity, spirit, and intelligence from. I am thankful for those moments together.
Although I couldn’t visit you much in the last little while, I value all the time we shared together - especially the last few years when I would drive up to visit you and Pa in Durham. When I brought Adam to meet you for the first time, I remember how, as we were heading out the door, you leaned in and whispered, “I like him very much.” That made me smile and I often find myself thinking about that.
As I sit here holding my son (as he sleeps covered in the blanket you made for him), I can’t help but feel gratitude that you two had a chance to meet (even if it was just by FaceTime). I will miss you, Ma. You were one in a million.
Lovingly,
XOXO
-Kaila
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Brian MacInnes posted a condolence
Sunday, November 8, 2020
To Howard and all the family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences with the death of Phyllis. Looking back, she had so much life and love from children and grandchildren; that must make us all smile. In every life there are struggles and she too had some. But in all of this, is life. And in life, there are so, so many stories and memories. At times like this it is important to recall and share these memories. Some will bring tears and others laughter. Share them to keep her memory alive to last forever.
Unfortunately, we’ll be unable to physically join you at visitation or for the funeral. Be assured that our thoughts and support are with you in the coming days and weeks.
Rest in Peace, Phyllis.
Carol Anne and Brian MacInnes
(Of Trenton; currently visiting Victoria, BC)
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Rosemary Purdy posted a condolence
Saturday, November 7, 2020
Dear Uncle Howard, Raymond, Connie, Dale and families I’m so sorry to hear of Aunt Phyllis’ passing. Even though I didn’t see her often, her kindness was evident in many ways. I had fond memories of the last time we spoke.She had a sense of humour and genuine concern for the family. She will be missed. Sorry I am unable to attend but my thoughts and prayers will be with you. Hugs. Love Rose and family
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Kerry, Alf and Alice Bruer posted a condolence
Saturday, November 7, 2020
Dear Connie, Dale, Howard and family
Sorry to hear of Phyllis' passing. She was a cherished member of your family and will be missed by all who knew her. Our deepest condolences to your family.
Alf, Alice and Kerry Bruer
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Lauire Georgopoulos lit a candle
Friday, November 6, 2020
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Dear Dale and family,
There are no words that can be said to lessen your pain and grief.
No matter how much a loved one's passing is expected or not, it hurts the same.
Cherish the love and memories you are so lucky to have and know that she is at peace with her son!
Thinking of you and sending a HUGE hug!!!
Laurie Georgopoulos
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Jennifer Sabatini posted a condolence
Friday, November 6, 2020
Dear Dale and Family I am thinking of you and sending love and prayers.
“Walking with Grief” a Celtic prayer
Do not hurry
As you walk with grief;
It does not help the journey
Walk slowly,
Pausing often:
Do not hurry
As you walk with grief
Be not disturbed
By memories that come unbidden.
Swiftly forgive;
And let Christ speak for you
Unspoken words.
Unfinished conversation
Will be resolved in Him.
Be not disturbed.
Be gentle with the one
Who walks with grief.
If it is you, be gentle with yourself.
Swiftly forgive;
Walk slowly,
Pausing often.
Take time, be gentle
As you walk with grief.
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Cathy & Peter lit a candle
Friday, November 6, 2020
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Dear Uncle Howard, Raymond, Renada, Connie, Dale and families:
I am sorry for the passing of Aunt Phyllis. Aunt Phyllis was a very kind hearted person. I remember as a teenager when we came down and I wanted to see my first love from the year before. She made Uncle Howard and my dad bring me there. They were not too happy when I saw him disappointed that I’ve grown a foot taller. True love went out the window that was Aunt Phyllis, a very soft hearted.
For my wedding anniversary in 1971, she and Uncle Howard bought a Dutch oven because I was going to be Betty Crocker. And after many tries to this date I still use that fine Dutch oven.
She will really be missed. I will hold her in my heart and even though I cannot come to the service due to specialists’ appointments, I will be there in spirit with you all and in my prayers.
Love,
Cathy and Peter Russell Harwood
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Terry Kelly posted a condolence
Friday, November 6, 2020
Dear Dale and family,
I am sorry for the loss of your dear mom. Hard at any time, but especially now. Sending love to you as you are grieving this woman who must have been quite remarkable. Big hug, Dale.
Terry Kelly
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The family of Mrs. Phyllis Marie Long uploaded a photo
Friday, November 6, 2020
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Victor Long Family Rose, Pete and Jackie and Pete and Cathy and families donated to HEART AND STROKE FOUNDATION OF ONTARIO
Thursday, November 5, 2020
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Dale Long lit a candle
Thursday, November 5, 2020
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Dale Long uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, November 5, 2020
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See the twinkle in her eye
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Jackie Diemer posted a condolence
Thursday, November 5, 2020
Dear Uncle Howard, Raymond, Connie, Dale and families. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of beloved Aunt Phyllis; Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. I have some good memories of Aunt Phyllis through the years. The very first subway ride I ever went on was when we were visiting Uncle Howard and Aunt Phyllis.Back then Cathy wanted to visit a fellow she had met while we were on vacation up north with Aunt Isabelle and Uncle Lucky and their family. He lived somewhere in Toronto and she wanted to see him and Aunt Phyllis took us on the subway so she could say hi to him. I will remember it always. Loved to talk with Aunt Phyllis on the phone and when she and Uncle Howard were visiting in Windsor. She had a lot of wisdom and had great many stories about her family, and the old days and she would make me laugh! I will always remember her special laugh and her generosity. May your great memories of the good times you had, lighten your burden a little She is now with Kevin and I am sure they are chatting up a storm and keeping an eye on you all. Unfortunately Pete and I will be unable to attend the visitation or service as I am working but my heart will be with you all. Remember when a loved one become a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. Hugs Love Pete and Jackie and family
Dale Long uploaded photo(s)
Thursday, November 5, 2020
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Me and my mommy
