Contributions to the tribute of Mrs. Betty Hehn

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Thursday, April 16, 2026

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Thursday, April 16, 2026

We loved Aunty Betty! You always knew where you stood with her, if she was thinking it she was saying it!!!!!! She didn’t suffer fools gladly especially Liberals!!!!! She was a great hostess, and always made you feel welcome! Each time we were in Uncle Carl and Aunt Betty’s company we always had a great time, lots of jokes and laughs. We were all lucky to have known her, she will be missed!!!!!!

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Petra Abernethy posted a condolence

Friday, March 27, 2026

Q: What was one of the qualities of Mrs. Betty that you loved most? A: I first met Betty more than 30 years ago. She was the aid working in the hearing class at Bridlewood JPS. I loved spending time with her. Her kindness and humour made every day a lovely day. Meeting and becoming Tracey's client shortly after meant that I would get little updates on Betty over the years. Our deepest condolences to Tracey and the family. She will be missed. Petra, Brad, Shane and Jessica Abernethy

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Tracey Posted Apr 2, 2026 at 3:33 PM

Thank you Petra and family. Mom loved working with you and spoke often of her “school days”. When I was going through her things, she had kept all the cards, pictures and crafts the kids and staff had given to her. So lovely to hear from you—thanks again. Dr Tracey

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Winnie posted a condolence

Friday, March 13, 2026

Sorry to learn of your mom’s passing,Tracey. Our condolences. Your golf buds

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Tracey Posted Apr 2, 2026 at 3:35 PM

I really appreciate that—thank you! See you on the course, Tracey

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The family of Mrs. Betty Hehn uploaded a photo

Sunday, March 1, 2026

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Ken Withers lit a candle

Sunday, March 1, 2026

To the entire Hehn family. Teenage years are pretty tough for many and being away from home for two years at age 15 and 16 was no exception for me. But I was very fortunate to have known the Hehn family from our lives together in Peterborough a few years earlier. My best friend in those Peterborough years, and subsequently in the Toronto years, was Perry. When I found myself away from my family I instantly became part of the Hehn family, Mr. And Mrs. Hehn were so kind always inviting me for meals and sleepovers. I particularly remember with so much fondness the trouble Mrs. Hehn went to to keep “tabs” on me. What I was doing, how was school and hockey. I felt like one of the family and knew, that if I ran into trouble, the one person I could really count on was Mrs. Hehn. I have often thought about those days and what a great influence the entire Hehn family (including Tracey and Colin) had on those years ensuring I stayed on the “right path” I read Mr. Hehn’s note left here and noticed he used the word “super” a lot…I think that was very fitting and certainly my experience as well. She lived an exemplary life and was loved by all who knew her. Rest well, we all miss you greatly but remember you fondly. Ken Withers

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Carl uploaded photo(s)

Sunday, February 8, 2026

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We started off our marriage of 66 years with all our belongings in the back seat and trunk of my car and it wasn’t full, only some clothes, bedding items and gifts we had received at out wedding, no furniture, that was all we had. I had been transferred to Winnipeg, Betty was living in Regina, where our long journey started. I managed to get two days off to go Regina to get married, but I had to be back at work after that. We were transferred seven times over the years but Betty always managed things each time. Our three children were each born in a different city so the task of being a mother was very demanding. She fitted in to every new neighbourhood quickly and made many new friends each time. Her kindness, caring nature and concern for others was always first and foremost, she was truly a people person. Mother is not an adequate description of Betty. She was a Super Mom, a Super Wife, a Super Nona and a Super Friend to everyone that knew her. Family and family gatherings were her pride and joy. We have hundreds of photos and videos taken over the years that we will cherish forever. Her dedication to family will be a legacy for all family members to maintain and pass along. She would be very happy to know that it will continue not only in her memory but that it is the best way to live. No one could have written a better script of our time together, we had so many wonderful years that are now only memories. I miss her so much. While in the hospital on my daily visits, every time I left I said, “Bye. I love you even more than before.” She always replied, “Me too.” Now I want to add, “Thank You for looking after me and our family so well. Bye. I love you even more than before.” Till We Meet Again. Rest In Peace, Carl

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Tracey uploaded photo(s)

Friday, January 30, 2026

Hi Mom: Thank you for being my Mom. You were the reason that I am the person I am today. You were my biggest fan and I’m going to miss having your support. I’ve got three stories to tell. 1. When I was about 8 years old , Mom had sewn a beautiful pink checkered curtain and bedspread with two tiers of ruffles falling down the sides of the bed. Being a bit of a perfectionist (!!, I made my bed every morning and struggled to have those ruffles align perfectly with the edge of the bed so they didn’t touch the floor. One day, Mom just happened to be walking past my door and saw me struggling and huffing and puffing and she said, “I don’t think the Queen is visiting today; it looks fine to me!” What a revelation! I didn’t have to try 200% at everything, all the time! Thank you Mom! 2. When I was 10 years old, my family visited our relatives in Saskatchewan. Mom and I were at my Aunt Elsie’s farm and she asked us to get some potatoes for supper. I headed over to the car thinking we were going to the grocery store. Mom went over to a patch of dirt and grabbed a shovel and started digging. I watched as she unearthed potatoes from the ground! I exclaimed, “How did you know there were potatoes there!?” She chuckled and told me these were potato plants. That’s when I knew my Mom was the smartest person on earth and had some magical tricks up her sleeve. That also made clear that I was just a city girl with much to learn. Mom taught me how to make cabbage rolls and pickles, pictured here. Later I learned to make sauerkraut as any self-respecting German-heritaged person should do. 3. This last bit is not so much of a story but how our mom and daughter roles came to be reversed, slowly over the last five years. After a lifetime of looking after me, Mom, it was becoming my time to reciprocate. After my retirement in 2022, I had more time for outings with Mom; shopping, afternoon teas, getting our nails done, lunches and overnight Airbnb adventures. We had a blast being together! Slowly, Mom started getting weaker and needed a cane then a walker. My husband, Steve, and I started taking over the holiday and birthday meals despite Mom’s reluctance. The whole family pitched in and continued Mom’s tradition. As time went on, she was happy to enjoy everyone’s company and let us do the preparing. Mom had extended hospital stays in her last year and I was honoured to keep abreast of her medical changes and use my knowledge as a doctor to converse with and suggest alternatives to her medical team. My Dad visited my Mom every day and I was able to support my Dad through those difficult times. On her last day, I fed her what would be her last meal—a fruit cup and she finished the juice with a straw. My last words to her were, as always, “I love you Mom” and this time I added, “See you tomorrow”, because she had had such a good day. In the roller coaster of ups and downs in her four month hospitalization, we didn’t know that that was to be her last day. However, she knew it. We later learned that she had said goodbye and thanked her nurses. She also told them that she was seeing the family “for the last time” when Steve and I insisted that her doctors allow her to leave the hospital for two hours on Boxing Day (during a blizzard as luck would have it) to come home in a wheelchair and enjoy a Christmas family gathering. These are the pictures I posted. You don’t have to worry about us, Mom, as you passed along your inner strength to us all. We are a family because of you. We will forever love you. Rest in complete peace. Tracey and family

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Tyler Hehn uploaded photo(s)

Wednesday, January 21, 2026

Nona was my Grandma, and she was a very special person. I have countless fond and vivid memories with Nona. Some memories are small, but special in their own right, and some have had a profound impact on my life. Every time I sneeze I can still almost hear her voice respond with "Haaack-ah-chookies". There was nothing better after telling a funny story than hearing Nona give a dignified "Well...!" followed by her short, genuine and contagious laugh. She made unforgettable chip dip and Jell-O casseroles every Thanksgiving and Christmas. There are many little happy memories I will always cherish with Nona, but one of the most important one to me is when I was about 10 years old. I was lying down to have a nap and Nona sat down at my bedside. She lovingly caressed the side of my face, running her fingers through my little sideburn hairs around my ear until I fell asleep. It seemed like it lasted for an hour and I didn't want it to end. I will never forget how much love I felt from her in those moments. The photo I've shared is from July 28, 2023 when my daughter Evelyn was a little over a month old. As Evie has grown up I caress her little sideburn hairs every chance I get, because nothing felt better than when my Nona did it for me. Nona lived her life full of love and peace, and I pray that she has that now as well. From my wife Stephanie, my daughter Evelyn, and myself, We forever love you, and miss you Nona.

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Ellee Hehn uploaded photo(s)

Friday, January 16, 2026

Dear Nona, Thank you for all the happy memories, I am one lucky girl to have such amazing grandparents. Thank you for being an incredible role model, and for teaching me to be strong and grounded. Words can’t explain how much I miss you and how grateful I am to have had you as my Nona. Life will never be the same again without you. I hope you know how many lives you’ve blessed, and how much love we all have for you. Till we meet again, Nona. I love you so much. -your granddaughter, Ellee

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Tyler Hehn uploaded photo(s)

Thursday, January 15, 2026

Nona was my Grandma, and she was a very special person. I have countless fond and vivid memories with Nona. Some memories are small, but special in their own right, and some have had a profound impact on my life. Every time I sneeze I can still almost hear her voice respond with "Haaack-ah-chookies". There was nothing better after telling a funny story than hearing Nona give a dignified "Well...!" followed by her short, genuine and contagious laugh. She made unforgettable chip dip and Jell-O casseroles every Thanksgiving and Christmas. There are many little happy memories I will always cherish with Nona, but one of the most important one to me is when I was about 10 years old. I was lying down to have a nap and Nona sat down at my bedside. She lovingly caressed the side of my face, running her fingers through my little sideburn hairs around my ear until I fell asleep. It seemed like it lasted for an hour and I didn't want it to end. I will never forget how much love I felt from her in those moments. The photo I've shared is from July 28, 2023 when my daughter Evelyn was a little over a month old. As Evie has grown up I caress her little sideburn hairs every chance I get, because nothing felt better than when my Nona did it for me. Nona lived her life full of love and peace, and I pray that she has that now as well. From my wife Stephanie, my daughter Evelyn, and myself, We forever love you, and miss you Nona.

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Brennan lit a candle

Thursday, January 15, 2026

Nona will be missed by everyone who knew her. She could bring the whole family together with just her food! I will never forget the time spent with her in the summer as a kid, swimming all day or going to Cullen's gardens. Her love and kindness is something I will carry with me forever, I feel lucky to have known her.

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Colin Hehn posted a condolence

Thursday, January 15, 2026

I remember coming home from grade school one day, only to find, oddly, Mom was not home. Tracey and I waited patiently(Perry was not home yet), when Mom pulled into the driveway a few minutes later. With a beaming smile, Mom signalled us over to the car. Tracey opened the car door, and instantly burst into tears of joy, I was quick to follow. There on Mom’s lap was a cute baby kitten. That, was a typical day for me with my Mom. But, my absolute best memory is that my Mom brought a cute baby kitten home every day, into my Life. Imagine, having a Mother like that. Well that’s exactly the kind of Mother my Mom, Nona, Betty was. Colin Hehn

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Rick Hames lit a candle

Thursday, January 15, 2026

I always admired the relationship Betty had with her 3 children (Perry, Colin & Tracy) and felt included and supported whenever I was around the Hehn family home. Her permanent smile and gregarious laugh at others jokes were authentic. She always made me, and then us, when I married Janie, feel welcome and comfortable. She was a terrific Wife, Mother, Grandmother & Great Grandmother and will be missed by all her loved ones. Our only regret is that we did not drop by enough after we moved to stay close but still felt close to her & Carl, that’s just how they always made us feel. RIP Betty as you will be missed, Love, Rick & Janie Hames

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Dale Miller posted a condolence

Wednesday, January 14, 2026

I will always remember how welcoming Mrs. Hehn was when the whole group of us showed up. We might be in the basement watching a movie, talking, and laughing. Even when we were loud, she never complained. She always seemed to enjoy all of us coming over to hang out.

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Bobbi Hehn uploaded photo(s)

Tuesday, January 13, 2026

I am the oldest grandchild of Betty. To me, she will always be my Nona (this is the name she chose to be called because grandma sounded too old!) I am forever grateful to have had her all for 37 years of my life. She was like a mother to me, more than just a grandmother. She took me clothes shopping, to Costco, to countless appointments, and always out for lunch afterwards. She helped me with my 4 children, who love and miss her so much. She was always up for a farm day, or to go strawberry picking. If she knew you, she cared about you. She would always ask me about my friends and my cousins on my moms side, asking about their children and their parents. She cared, and genuinely wanted to hear about everyone's happiness and accomplishments in life. If you were lucky enough to be one of her grandchildren or greatgrandchildren, she was your biggest fan and biggest cheerleader. Any choice we made, she was supportive, and would stay up at night thinking about how she could help. She never had anything negative to say about any choice we made, only positivity and support, laced with love. "You want to go to school for that? I think that is a wonderful idea! You like that shirt? It looks great on you!" I try to live my life this way, because of the positive example she set. When I first brought my husband to meet her and Grampa, they welcomed him into the family with open arms from day one. They loved each of my babies unconditionally. Nona loved to watch them swim. Nona would cook Sunday dinners for us every single week, she loved having us over. When she could no longer cook large dinners, I would bring the food so that we could still have that sacred time together. I will miss that time, but I will always hold onto the memories I have. Nona, you were the absolute best. I know you are smiling down at us, with everyone we have ever lost by your side. Angels in heaven together until we meet again.

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Joan MacBain Posted Jan 15, 2026 at 8:50 AM

A lovely tribute to your Nona Bob. SHE WAS THE BEST.

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Marie and Ed posted a symbolic gesture

Sunday, January 11, 2026

Twenty-five years ago, our real estate agent had booked to show us a house, and as we pulled into the driveway, we saw a couple sitting on their front-porch next door. They smiled and waved and that cinched our decision to buy the house, really! And so began our "Best Neighbours" relationship with Betty and Carl. After I retired Betty invited me to join her Badminton Birds group where coffee/tea break was often the highlight of this weekly social event. Over the years, our front-porch chats with "BettynCarl" became part of our regular routine as long as the weather allowed. We considered each other as extended-family and shared in each other's milestone celebrations. Betty's winning smile and quirky sense of humour will be deeply missed, as well as her cheerful presence and ever-ready wave on our way in and out of our driveway. We send our heartfelt condolences to her loving husband and best friend Carl, their children Perry, Colin and Tracey and the extended Hehn Family, with the hope that their beautiful memories of Betty will bring them comfort during this difficult time. Marie and Ed

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Zane lit a candle

Saturday, January 10, 2026

Nona was always the best grandma. I have so many great memories of her taking care of my sister and I when we were kids. She never turned down an opportunity to cook up a huge meal, whether it was for Christmas dinner, or just the grandkids stopping by. She was always in for a long conversation or a funny story. I know Nona will always be remembered and loved so much. — Zane Zwicker

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Tracey Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 6:23 PM

So true. Nona and I had a running joke that if 10 stray people decided to suddenly come for dinner then she wouldn’t have to worry because she had made more than enough food.

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Liana Zwicker uploaded photo(s)

Friday, January 9, 2026

I have a lot of memories of Nona throughout the years, mostly of Holiday and Birthday get-togethers at her and Grampa's house! I loved opening Christmas presents with everyone there and feasting on the buffet of food!! My mom, Nona and I went on many ladies outings, like shopping at the mall and high tea. The first photo I included was a birthday high tea get-together with Nona, my cousin Amy, my mom, and my Aunt Cindy! The second was an outing at a fancy restaurant for Nona's birthday. We enjoy the finer things... ;) A faint but very fond series of memories I had with Nona were when we visited Cullen Miniature Village and Gardens many times together. The place is now closed, but I remember that Nona would take me and had a great time admiring the miniature towns, amusement park, and gardens! A vivid memory of Nona from a long time ago was when I first got an insulin pump for my Diabetes and Nona came with me. On the drive home, Nona suggested that we stop for ice cream and I thought, I'm not allowed to have ice cream right now because of my diabetic diet. Nona told me that now that I have the pump, I can have treats whenever I want! I no longer had to plan my meals, I could give myself extra insulin when needed. That memory really reminds me of what a fun-loving person Nona was and I will always cherish the warm memories I have of her.

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Tracey Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 6:16 PM

I’m so glad that we did many fun outings altogether—memories that will last a lifetime. I remember shopping with Nona at Winners—she was a true master at sorting through all the clothes and finding the exact thing you were looking for. Grandpa kept kidding her during her hospital stay that Costco had called and wondered where she was as their sales were way down! She would have a good laugh at that.

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Linda Ryan posted a condolence

Friday, January 9, 2026

Tracey, I was so very saddened to hear about the passing of your beloved mom. Please accept my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. While I didn't have the pleasure of meeting your mom, I feel that I did get to know her through the beautiful tributes here, she sounds like a truly special person indeed. My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. Linda Ryan

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Tracey Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 6:05 PM

Thank you so much, Linda.

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Jacqueline Ryan uploaded photo(s)

Thursday, January 8, 2026

I am so grateful to Betty and her beautiful family. I have spent the last 4 years becoming closer with them all, and each one of them has made me feel so welcome and accepted into the family. I know this is due in no short part to Betty herself and her character. Even in knowing her for a shorter time, I have acquired a collection of great memories of her, ones that make me laugh and in my opinion reflect just how much of a presence she had in life. The one that comes to mind now is about 2 years ago in 2024, I looked through her old photo album with her, Carl, Tracey, and her grandson Zane who is now my fiancée. I got to look back at all the best moments and amazing accomplishments of hers and Carl’s life together, and witness as she recalled each of them in real time. To me, she seemed so proud and happy, and I was so grateful to be a part of that moment❤️ ~ Jacqueline Ryan

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Tracey Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 6:04 PM

Thank you for that memory—I remember that day too. Great pic as well.

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Steven Zwicker posted a condolence

Thursday, January 8, 2026

Right from the beginning Nona welcomed me into the family with love and respect. Nona was such a selfless and giving ,loving person, her caring for others had no bounds. She was a perfect mother-in-law and Nona for Zane and Liana. She was the first to take Liana for the night and deal with her shots , giving us a much needed break. She was there when Tracey and I needed a player for SLO Pitch or we would default and pretty impressive for a Nona , she even got a hit ! ….And you better come to the table hungry or you’re in big trouble , you’re getting seconds whether you like it or not . I loved the simple things with Nona like sitting on the front porch and watching the world go by, she was always up for a good chat and never ran out of something to say. I will miss those days with Nona but I will always cherish the ones I had . Steve Z

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Tracey Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 6:37 PM

Just lovely.

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Carole & Mark Carriere posted a condolence

Tuesday, January 6, 2026

Betty will forever be a warm light in our hearts. We are so greatful for the memory of the countless good times with Betty and Carl during our decades together as part of the Kresge/Kmart family. Rest in Eternal Peace dear friend.

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Tracey Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 6:35 PM

Thank you for your comment. My Mom and Dad loved to tell us about their travels with the Kmart crowd. Kmart was a big part of our family as my brothers and I were all born in different places depending on where my Dad was transferred; Brandon, Manitoba, Sault St. Marie and Ottawa, Ontario.

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Helen Mrazek posted a condolence

Monday, January 5, 2026

Dear Uncle Carl and family. We were deeply saddened to hear about Aunt Betty's recent passing. I have many fond memories while growing up with family gatherings on Wallace Street, trips to visit in Brandon and later to Toronto. Aunt Betty was always so welcoming and such a gracious hostess! She was a wonderful cook and homemaker. But most of all, she was a devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She was a beautiful person inside and out! She will be missed by many. Ron and Helen (Orb) Mrazek

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Tracey Posted Jan 6, 2026 at 3:23 PM

Thank you for sharing your memories. She always held all family in high regard.

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Alexandra MacBain posted a condolence

Monday, January 5, 2026

I am very sad to hear about the passing of Nona. She was an amazing person! I have so many memories swimming in the pool when I was a kid and then when I had kids. She always had a welcoming, loving home. I will always remember the delicious pickles she would give me and how she made me a gift when I bought my first house. Love you guys all so much, I am sending all my love and strength to Betty’s family and friends. May she be remembered always <3

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Tracey Posted Jan 6, 2026 at 3:26 PM

Aahhhh the pickles. I have the recipe if you need it. Thank you for your memories.

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Joan MacBain posted a condolence

Monday, January 5, 2026

Carl, Perry, Colin, Tracy and families, Doug and I are so saddened to hear of Betty's passing. She was such a kind soul. We spent so much time at your home, swimming in the pool, hanging out in the basement, eating Dilly bars. She was a hostess supreme, always making all of us feel welcome and always up to chat with us. I enjoyed those chats. Audrey loved Betty. She used to say she won the in law jackpot, and she certainly did. I hadn't seen Betty in several years but Bobbi and Brennan always kept me in the loop. She was a wonderful Mom and Nona and she will be missed. Joan & Doug MacBain

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Tracey Posted Jan 6, 2026 at 3:34 PM

Thank you Joan and Doug. I’m glad you refreshed the memory of the Dilly bars! Mom also loved Audrey. They had many talks and laughs together. She recently said, “Wouldn’t Audrey be so proud of how her kids turned out!”

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Norma Brem posted a condolence

Monday, January 5, 2026

Betty was a warm, gracious woman who always made me and my family feel at home. She had a calm, easy manner. Betty was a huge source of support for my sister, Audrey, and I know that Audrey greatly admired her. We will miss you, Betty, but you will always hold a warm spot in our hearts.

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Tracey Posted Jan 6, 2026 at 3:36 PM

Thank you for your memories. Mom loved talking and laughing with your family.

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